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September 3, 2007

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PARENTING MADE EASY PART 1!

July 8, 2007

Welcome to Parenting Made Easy! I am not a qualified expert of any sort. I learned and still learning from the University of Life. I am motivated to print my thoughts after receiving good reviews from relatives, friends and strangers when they complimented my wife and I about raising our eight children.

How do we do it?

Well first and foremost is that I have achieved one of my primary goal in life i.e. to have seven children. We surpassed my expectation with the arrival of our eight child namely Qistyna Lukman Yusoff born 29th day of August 2006.

Copy and paste http://megnideas.multiply.com/photos/album/2 -for our Family Photo.

This is a testament to the fact that “Whatever you vividly imagine, ardently desire, sincerely believe and enthusiastically act upon must inevitably come to pass!” a quote from Paul J. Meyers. It is also likely a result of “My prayer has been answered!”

That the first part of goal-setting. What happened mentally was that I was ushered to acquire knowledge about effective parenting by the law of attraction and the universal force as commanded by the subconscious mind and the obedient genie “YOUR WISH IS MY COMMAND!”. I would burn my weekend to organize seminars through my company namely Impetus Consultants to impart knowledge on effective parenting by well-known experts in this field. They were Datuk Dr. Hasan bin Hj Mohd Ali, Datuk Dr. Haji Mohd Fadhillah Bin Hj Kamsah and Dr Azizan bin Ismail (producer of the product EXAMO CKM-500). We successfully trained and motivated hundreds of participants in our training programs. These include Summer Camps, Family Camps, Effective Parenting Skills, The 8 Secrets to Effective Parenting and various half-day to full-day workshops. Altogether there were 15 related topics to choose from. Email me at luke2409@yahoo.com for more information and seminar/workshop bookings.

The next equation would be choosing the right system to run your family or the belief system that you want to incorporate into your family’s member. I choose Islam as its pillar because I belief Islam is a way of life. I am not shy about recommending this belief system because it is universal and can be applied to anyone living on this beautiful place called earth. Just witness the diversity in the people performing Haj each year for the Haj pilgrimage to understand why Islam is a way of life. Did you know that we are experiencing a phenomenon in Europe on the number of conversion to Islam? Well, that is a different issue from my discussion here at the moment.

Islam teaches time management in its repetitive form. I remembered when I wanted to memorize the phrase from Paul J Meyers or any other gurus on affirmation tactics, you have to repeat it daily and over a period of 30 days before it can successfully replaced an old habit with a new one or a bad habit with a good habit. Does this sound familiar? Well, it works for me and that fix many of my client’s problem with issues relating to child discipline and time management.

Islam teaches time line. At a certain age, your child should be able to achieve this so that he/she will be able to understand that concept. To be continued…

Something to ponder today:

“You may be the poorest person on this continent and be deeply in debt in knowledge. You may have neither friends, influence, nor resources but if you begin to do things in this way, you must infallibly began to get built the family that you dream of, for like causes must produce like effects.

If you have no time, you can get time…

If you are in the wrong footing in parenting, you can get back on the right track…

If you are in the wrong parenting practices, you can acquire the right and effective parenting skills required of you…

And you can do so by beginning in your present situation to do things in the certain way which always causes you to become effective parent/partner.

You must begin to live in harmony with the laws governing the universe.